I think the longer an empath goes without a successful relationship, the more this feeling deepens. 1. Example: Introvert vs Extrovert person.However, my boyfriend has been incredibly patient with me and has helped me learn that he needs time to recharge, otherwise talking to people (not just me) will feel like a chore. I now realize how I might have been impeding on his own needed time and I now encourage him to take as much time as he needs.yes 2) the person I’m dating isn’t always “my favorite person in the world”I don’t really blow up her phone. She followed me pestering me again so I asked to to please leave me alone. It will help her get through the moment when she needs action by knowing it will have a resolution at such and such a time.I’m an introvert, and solitude is one of my favorite things. She needs to also learn how to manage how much time she spends alone so she can also be able to do these fun things with you.Sounds like your partner is in the second camp, while you are in the first.Not everyone has the same energy when it comes to socializing, and that's perfectly valid.
My instinct is still to fix any fight right away but I know that his way of fixing it may take more time than I want and I have to respect that. So yeah idk what to thinkI hope this makes sense. My boyfriend is like you. Otherwise you become this monster-like fusion.My boyfriend on the other hand is more introverted and has his own mental battery that needs to be recharged by him spending time with himself. Honesty, Trust, Love and Communication are the 4 pillars of every normal relationship. Please give me some space for (insert amount of time here) and then we can resume our discussion." Providing a timeline to talk later helps the other party not feel as though they are in limbo forever.Seriously. The healthiest of relationships allow for a solid amount of couple time and also a healthy dose of alone time. And for your second part i actually straight up asked her if she still wants to be in this relationship or to break it off. It's something that we should all make room for. "Alone Time" Keeps Relationships Healthy Being okay with yourself is essential to being okay in the company of others. However, the connection-potential is erased when one person (or both) is yearning for some nourishing and soul-replenishing alone time instead. Trying to sustain a relationship with a depressed person can make the healthy partner feel helpless and more than a little hopeless at times.
Not everyone has the same personality. Asking to go throught her Dm is too much and would be a deal breaker for me ,honestly, specialy if you ask her if she still want to be with you or not.